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Dating customs of koreans

The truth is that if you want to be able to have the same rights as men, you can't demand they also wait on you hand and foot.... Forgive me, but it seems like the guys get the short end of the stick with this one!

) Koreans date much more through social circle or match-making companies to find potential partners.

They also look for partners who have higher status and connections rather than charm and personality.

You might be able to point out that Korean culture is firmly founded on traditional values, and therefore the girls truly may be as coy as they seem…but I’m here to tell you, they’re not.

Korean girls do just about everything else American girls do, the only differences is they keep it behind closed doors, and they don’t talk about it openly. Sexual advertising is everywhere, it’s impossibly to avoid, so maybe the Koreans are on to something here...is more.

There are two sides to this coin: for one, we’d be lying if we said the U. Most everyone in Seoul agrees that appearance is given a high value in Korean society.

Part of this is attributed to the fact that the population is in such close proximity, there is always the constant awareness you are being watched, and consequently: critiqued.My view of American dating is this: start dating as soon as possible, as immaturely as possible.Consequently, both women and men are already jaded by the time they are in their twenties, but especially women.But a Korean motto is quite the opposite; for example, a Korean woman will dress to a T with designer clothes, high-quality makeup and five-inch heels...if you compliment her on any of these stylish choices, her response will probably be something like, "Oh this? " It's considered rude to gloat on a compliment..truth be told, both men and women consider appearance to be high on their list of criteria when choosing a partner, because it's not just the person you spend weekends with, it's the person you're going to be I'm not going to pretend like Korean guys are going around holding doors for women and opening car doors, but couples are often seen together, the man holding the woman's purse and/or books, while also holding her hand. Maybe....but, probably it's more a case of plain old-fashioned chivalry. Apparently you can have your cake and eat it too...I'm going to say something that's probably not going to be very popular, but in the United States, feminism killed chivalry. most Korean women have the same amount of education and advancement in the career world as their male counterparts, yet the man still has to hold her purse?Yes you can argue that Westerners do the same but how they do it is radically different! Korean men and women grow up believing that they can only date in their social circles.To be a guy who goes around picking up women (which is more acceptable in the West) means that he has no social circle (and must be weird or unwanted.)Koreans introduce potential partners through ‘soggaeting’ (소게팅) which is blind dating.On the other hand, dating a post-military guy means he is older, has more life-experience, and certainly more mature..unfortunately, the women he meets in college are younger, and almost finished with their degree.The difficulty of making a college relationship last is exponentially increased when the couple finds themselves in different parts of their lives, with different goals and different ideals.They have been hurt so much at a young age that they come to believe that all men must be assholes, so why even bother?Korean college-age girls however, talking to them, you'd think they were 16-year olds.

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